Holding the belief that one does not notice racial differences, and that discussing race only perpetuates racism, would be considered

Color blind racism
       
Color blindess advances non-white races are second class people . When you instruct your youngster to be have the said character trait. you are basically letting them know, "Whenever somebody isn't white, imagine they appear as though you so you can be companions." Stripping individuals of a key part of their character by asserting not to see shading is dehumanising.