At sally's birthday party, her mother reminded her to say " you" every time she opened a present from a friend. sally's mom was engaging in the process of:

Sally's mom was engaging in the process of "socialization".

Socialization, the procedure whereby an individual figures out how to acclimate to a gathering (or society) and carry on in a way affirmed by the gathering (or society). As per most social researchers, socialization basically speaks to the entire procedure of learning for the duration of the existence course and is a focal effect on the conduct, convictions, and activities of grown-ups and in addition of youngsters.  

i want to say death; parole, probation, and fines are still being used all the time.