so I have a friend and she said the n-word and she white and she had a gf and they were together for a while but they broke up then the other girl we going to call her Emily so Emily said give me my jacket back and my ring and the ex we going to call her Emma so she said no then Emily jacket that she gave to Emma as a gift when they were together they Emma gave her the jacket but when she gives her the jacket it was all mess up and holes in it like someone cut through them. so what do I do in this mess because im trying not to make it a fight