Im 13 almost 14 and my voice is still sorta high im getting signs of puberty but how do i know i hit it?

It takes time... It does not happen all in one place. I was in the same boat as you buddy, but it takes time, every body is different

If you are Male then you should notice signs of puberty by your voice cracking and your pitch ranges from high to low.

The most common stereotypes could be that boys don't cryboys don't get emotional boys are never as mature as girlsboys are lazyetc.

Not sure exactly what kind of answer you are looking for so i hope this able to be a effective listener and also being  a good conversationalist. and most of all just being there when someone needs you.i hope this .