Tragically, since it’s discovery, what’s been happening to the pompeii ruins

Natural elements typically erode ancient ( and all ) buildings and structures overtime. That and an increasing amount of tourist attraction also doesn’t help the decaying... well everything. An article from the guardian supports this and even says that last year the EU threatened to remove the funding of the Great Pompeii Project which conserves and restores this ancient site.

Probably north korea if your family has decided to use only nuclear power.