Explain the irony of the last sentence in the short story "Fish Cheeks"?

the passage of the Fish Cheeks written by Amy Tan the author uses details and diction to reveal that an embarrassing experience in her youth changed how she felt about her family's heritage by making her realize that her feelings of shame were based on other people's responses more than her own feelings

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