I need help on these two, but if you can help me on the rest please ask

Santiago said, “a man can be destroyed but not defeated.” in essence he says that a. defeat is likely when you sail alone. b. man can face defeat so it is important to learn from your mistakes and be prepared. c. sharks can always defeat man unless man is well prepared. d. man can be hurt and even destroyed but still have the ability to control how it is viewed.

Does anyone read this story in 9th grade "when mr. pirzada came to dine"

Which example is presented in chronological