How do the First 2 lines of the poem frame the speaker’s tone and perspective towards death?

I looked this question up online. It refers to the poem "Because I could not stop for death" by Emily Dickinson. The first two lines are:

Because I could not stop for Death –

He kindly stopped for me –

Answer and Explanation:

The first line reveals how the speaker was unprepared to die. She was not expecting death at all, and seems to have thought she still had many things to do. So much so that she couldn't stop for death - she did not have the time to spare to even think about death.

The second line reveals that she sees death in positive way. She personifies death, using the pronoun "he" instead of "it", as if death is a person. Not only that, but death is a kind person. "He kindly stopped" conveys a smooth tone. Death did not come abruptly, rudely, but kindly, giving the speaker the chance to come to terms with it.

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