So a man kills someone, and he is charged with murder and sent to jail. Later on, a woman aborts her child (which is murdering) and isn't sent to jail or charged for anything?!?!

So... why is our society so messed up?

If the child is still inside of the woman, then it is referred to not as a baby but as a fetus. She is not murdering anybody but denying life to an unliving thing that wouldn't know the difference. It is better for the child to not have been born than to grow up in an unhealthy household

based on the biblical principle philippians 4: 13 "i can do everything through christ who strengthens me." i agree that it is through him that we are given the strength to cope with every situation.

and based on the biblical principle proverbs 16: 32 "better to get angry slowly than to be a hero. better to be even-tempered than to capture a city."   i agree with the author of the passage to the extent that the nobility of heart demonstrates the strength of a person. those who are contemptuous, get angry easily and show their anger toward others are really weak, but those who are noble and make sure to not hurt other people and their feelings are strong people.