heres a riddle! this is just for fun and I figured this would be a good riddle snince its spoopy season dont report me plz. "I am can be anything that lives exept plants but I will try to help you if I can but dont stress I might spook you"

Which relational dialectic is causing tension in the following scenario? greg and anna work together. they're good friends and talk a lot. but anna doesn't feel comfortable telling greg about her problems with her boyfriend. she's frustrated that he keeps asking her about them. autonomy-connection novelty-predictability openness-privacy