Who adds me as a friend i will make him a brainlist

Does any one read this story "when mr. came to dine". in 9th grade. plz i need with one question about this story?

Which is not a controlling idea in the essay? a) average joggers b) importance of tradition eliminate c) olympic-level competitors d) fräbel-designed crystal peach

What can you infer about esperanza's character from the fact that she argues three days with her mother trying to persuade her to write the note?