How is it possible that people experiencing the same life experiences are not affected in the same way?

answer is -how a person is affected by a stressful situation has a lot to do with how that person perceives the situation. for example, one person may place more value on a specific situation while another does not. therefore, two individuals would differ in how they react to an unpleasant outcome of the situation. how a person copes with experiences that cause stress has to do with the culture a person comes from and what one learned from watching other people. another way that the effects of stress can vary from person to person has to do with the amount of social support available to the individual.

Mental attitude to the situation

Explanation:

Mental attitude is simply the state of mind or though that propels a person to react to a particular life situation. it could be positive or negative. When it is positive, such person is said to perceive the situation as merely a challenge. whereas, if seen as a negative, the person is said to perceive the situation as a problem without a solution.

the tone of the passage is sympathetic to the forbidden love of romeo and juliet. the nurse plays a significant role in the play. she is responsible for making their meeting again possible. additionally, there is a sense of warning in the choice of words of the nurse. she seems to be authoritative when she calls romeo "scurvy knave", and at the same time the fact that she addresses to him as "sir" reflects respect. the nurse is "vexed", this word describes her confused state of mind. on the one hand, she finds romeo a fine and eloquent man, but on the other, it is thought that man's nature forces men to try to trick women.  

second one- because has facts and not opinion