My mom constantly puts perms in my hair, but i want to go natural. how can i convince my mom to let me grow my hair out naturally without sounding rude and disrespectful? pleaded me. i really need advice atm

Sho her all the bad things that can happen

Just tell her up front that your glad shes trying to care about you the way she feels works, but that you want to grow your hair out naturally.  Just tell her you want this, tell her appreciate her, but you don't want to be rude or disrespectful to her. :>good luck, hope this helps!