In achebe’s things fall apart, why is it considered a "feminine" crime when ezeudu’s son is killed?

Because it was not an intentional crime.

Explanation:

Ezeudu's son is killed during his own father's funeral. Ogbuefi Ezedu's was a great warrior, and therefore, his funeral is large and very elaborate. During the funeral, the men beat drums and fired their guns. Okonkwo's gun accidentally goes off, and he ends up killing Ezeudu's sixteen-year-old son. Because the gun was fired accidentally, this is considered a "feminine" crime. Moreover, because it is a crime against the earth goddess to kill a clansman, Okonkwo must take his family into exile for seven years.

based on the biblical principle proverbs 16: 32, i agree with the author of the passage "better is it that it takes longer to be angry than the strong " to the extent that i share the philosophy that the nobility of heart demonstrates the strength of a person. those who are very proud, get angry easily and show their anger toward others are really weak, but those who are noble and do not constantly obfuscate or contain their feelings of anger, are strong people