people say that things happen for a reason but why whats the point of all the pain if it nvr goes away

Things in life can hurt us in the moment and we ask ourself why does this happen. but you have to always have a positive outlook on things. for example me and my ex broke up months ago after a year together and i was really upset about it. but as time went on, i made new hobby’s such as working out and doing better in school so i can look at myself and be happy on who i am becoming as a person. wish you the best :)

The term is called adduction 

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